The Red Flags Checklist: A Guide For Family Members

When it comes to protecting our older loved ones from scams and fraud, knowing what to look for makes all the difference. Many family members wonder: How can I tell the difference between normal changes and potential security concerns? When should I be worried, and when am I overreacting?

The Observation Balance

Finding the right balance is crucial. Too little awareness can leave seniors vulnerable to sophisticated scams. Too much scrutiny can damage trust and undermine independence. What’s needed is informed awareness—knowing the specific signs that might indicate security concerns without jumping to conclusions.

Introducing the Red Flags Recognition Checklist

To help family members navigate this balance, we’ve created: The Red Flags Checklist. This downloadable resource helps you:

• Identify potential security concerns across financial, digital, and communication domains
• Distinguish between normal aging changes and concerning patterns
• Know what to look for without becoming hypervigilant
• Understand appropriate next steps if concerns arise

What’s Inside

The checklist covers:

• Specific observable behaviors that might indicate security vulnerabilities
• Clear categories for different types of concerns
• Guidance on normal vs. concerning changes
• Respectful conversation approaches when concerns arise
• Step-by-step guidance for addressing potential issues

Unlike generic “warning signs” lists, this resource is designed specifically for family members of seniors. It emphasizes respect, dignity, and proportional responses while providing concrete, actionable guidance.

How to Use This Resource

The Red Flags Checklist isn’t meant to be a surveillance tool or a diagnostic test. Rather, it’s a reference guide that helps you be appropriately aware without overstepping.

Keep it handy for periodic reference, not constant monitoring. Use it to educate yourself about potential concerns, not to scrutinize every action. And remember that patterns are more meaningful than isolated instances.

Download Your Copy

Download this guide and take an important step toward protecting your loved ones while respecting their independence.